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Trump Wants To Put Millions Of Dollars Into Abstinence-Only Education And These Latinx Sex Educators Aren’t Having It

President Trump’s proposed budget for the 2019 fiscal year hasn’t been approved by Congress yet, but it’s already causing a stir. According to the proposal, Trump wants to put millions of dollars behind sex education, a program that teaches young people to not engage in sexual activity outside of marriage rather than educating them on contraception and safe sex practices.

There is significant research findings about the ineffectiveness and danger of Abstinence-Only-Until-Marriage (AOUM) programs. For instance, a 2004 investigation by the minority staff of the House Government Reform Committee found cases of abstinence-only curriculum that was inaccurate, blurred religion and science and contained unproven claims. Some of the lessons included falsehoods like abortions lead to suicide, HIV can spread through sweat and tears and people can get pregnant by touching someone’s genitals.

Some experts also believe these abstinence-only programs have a disproportionate impact on communities of color. A 2008 study from UC Berkeley School of Law found that this course of study increases the already-heightened risk of STIs, HIV and unintended pregnancy among Black and brown youth, and unplanned pregnancies — along with limited knowledge and access to abortions — can further compound low-income and immigrant teens from succeeding in school and building careers.

Despite criticism from public health and medical experts, Trump hopes to allocate $75 million toward funding abstinence-only education and cut resources on proven-to-work comprehensive sexual education, which arms young people with accurate, inclusive and culturally appropriate information on sexuality, sexual orientation, contraception, sexually-transmitted infections and healthy relationships.

The decision for Trump, who appointed abstinence-only advocate Valerie Huber to the HHS and cut funding for teen pregnancy prevention programs, to propose vast funding for AOUM programs isn’t surprising, but people are still pushing back.

Here, four Latina and Latinx sex educators discuss how abstinence-only programs hurt our young people.

Bianca I. Laureano, 39, Puerto Rican, New Orleans

While my sexual education work started in the classroom, I now train the trainers and write the curricula used in schools. These budgets for abstinence-only education have always been excessive, so it is not surprising when we have a Republican president to see these numbers increase. It’s expected. The premise is basically to choose abstinence, and it is defined in a narrow and rigid way: waiting to engage in any sexual activity until tying the knot. This definition isolates so many of us, like those who do not wish to be married, who are not monogamous, who do not want to engage in sex only for procreation and who define abstinence differently, such as “waiting to have sex” until your STI and HIV test results come in, until you are in love, until you have the house to yourself, until you have a relationship with a person you dig or, yes, until marriage. Even more, we know from decades of the legacy we’ve inherited that this route does not work and that it ends up costing us so much more in abortion care, pregnancy and birth support, and in the efforts to support and not stigmatize young femme parents.

Like former Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, I consider abstinence-only education a form of child abuse. When we inform young people of only a few of their choices, we take their power away. We do not provide them with critical thinking skills or the support they need to find trusting and caring relationships or friendships. These curricula and programs set youth up to lose their self-determination and have blurry lines of consent. It normalizes violence, especially state violence and violence rooted in religion, and provides a warped sense of responsibility and accountability. The discussions of sexual assault and sexual violence are not clear if conversations of and about consent are not rooted in reality and everyday situations youth may find themselves in. There are a lot of things wrong with sexuality curricula in general, especially that they do not include queer, working-poor or working class and/or undocumented people of color. When we limit resources and information, we are limiting liberation and freedom.

Amy Quichiz, 22, Colombian-Peruvian, New York

As an adult sexual educator, I teach New York’s Latinx and Black communities about sexually transmitted infections (STIs), birth control annual exams, consent and communication in bilingual workshops. It is my responsibility to be as accurate as possible, leaving space for folk to process this information, and making sure that it is also being spread to their family, neighbors and children. Trump’s proposed budget is absolutely ridiculous and unrealistic. Abstinence-only education, which teaches the wrong information or no information about sex in order for youth to “avoid” sex at all costs, can be harmful to folks of color because their chances of getting accurate information outside of school is dramatically lower than white folks who live in suburban areas. When I reach out to the Latinx community, many Latinas do not know their birth control options. Some women even say that they thought tube ligation was their only option because doctors only talk about sterilizing women. Statistically, there are a lot of Latina immigrant women that go to hospitals and do not even know they have the right to have an interpreter in the room. Therefore, on top of inaccurate information, it’s also not even being communicated properly. When it comes to queer communities of color, they will likely get information that does not apply to their sexual behaviors or not receive information at all. If this is the information mothers are receiving, it’s what they will share with their children. Comprehensive sex ed in school is where young people can unlearn these myths and arm themselves with healthy, fact-based information. Our young people need the best information they can get — about emergency contraception, birth control, STIs, what healthy relationships mean and more. This is especially important for children growing up in abusive homes. Comprehensive sex education touches on partner violence, protection and what to do if you have an STI. It unpacks all taboos and myths about sexually transmitted infections, and this is all needed in our communities.

Aurora Chavez, 25, Mexican, Los Angeles

Excessive abstinence-only funding is something the sex ed community has long had to deal with. Being in California, where public school sexuality educators must provide medically accurate, age-appropriate, LGBT-friendly information as well as lessons on abortion, consent, sexual assault and harassment, it won’t impact us as much. However, it will be harmful to so many young people in other states throughout the country. It’s very frustrating because data shows that abstinence-only education doesn’t work, is not effective and is taking away power from our youth to make the best decisions for themselves and receive the best education on things that impact them. It’s particularly dangerous for Latinas. Growing up in a Latino community, it’s pretty normalized to not talk about sex. Everything you learn, you learn from school or friends, so implementing abstinence-only education does a disservice to our youth. Even if sex was something we spoke openly about in our homes, our elders often didn’t receive a comprehensive sexuality education, either. This is true even in my own family. One day, I was talking to my sister about the Diva Cup, a reusable menstrual cup worn internally that collects rather than absorbs menstrual flow. I was telling her about it, and she asked how one could pee while wearing one. I pulled out my diaphragm, which, as an educator, I always keep handy, and showed her that menstrual blood and urine come from different holes. She’s 40 and has three children, and she did not know this. But it’s not her fault. We come from a culture where we are not supposed to talk about our bodies and sex. It doesn’t prepare us to take care of our bodies. This is why it’s so important to have these conversations in schools. Comprehensive sex ed empowers us. It’s not about having sex or not having sex. It’s giving young people tools and resources they need to make the best decisions for themselves and the skills to build with their partners, whether they be straight or queer, healthily.

Aida Manduley, 28, Puerto Rican-Cuban, Boston

Trump’s proposed $75 million budget for abstinence-only sex education is not just ridiculous but also actively harmful and part of a larger set of budget decisions that cut access to services and education in ways that don’t support the long-term health of our country or its citizens, regardless of one’s political orientation. This hurts us all, and will end up costing us so much more in both money and human lives than it purports to save. There is a great body of research debunking the utility and efficacy of abstinence-only in many domains, so it’s clear that Trump is not doing this for any scientifically validated reason. It is clear that the Trump administration does not have the best interests of this country at heart, because even the most privileged of all are harmed by this kind of faulty education.

Though it comes in many guises and flavors, the core tenets of abstinence-only education are that abstinence is the only valid and valuable method of preventing pregnancy and infections, that heterosexual marriage is the destination of all moral humans and that people don’t need to really learn or understand many of the mechanics that actually affect their sexual health. It treats sexuality like a huge ticking time-bomb, a danger zone and also this strange magical prize one can unlock after marriage (but without much information about how to handle it when the time comes). As someone who also works as a therapist, I see the effects of deep-seated sexual shame in my clients on a daily basis, and it’s toxic. This kind of education both creates and taps into core psychological messages that leave people feeling undeserving of happiness, undeserving of good relationships, undeserving of love and even undeserving of existence.

Abstinence-only education harms all of us, but especially uterus-bearing Latinxs — who are often stereotyped (if even included) in abstinence-only education as uncontrollable baby-making machines that cause a burden on society. We deserve a more holistic message of who we are and could be. There is so much psychological harm and pain that could be avoided or diminished through early intervention in the realm of sexuality education and support. Rather than leaving our world to focus on intervention and addressing traumas that have already come to pass, what would our world look like if we could avoid many of those things from even happening in the first place?

Read: 5 Things To Know About Latina Girls And The Sexual Abuse-To-Prison Pipeline

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Despite Obstacles, Latinos And POC Have Been Getting Into College Without Help From SAT Rigging Aunt Becky And Her White Privilege


Despite Obstacles, Latinos And POC Have Been Getting Into College Without Help From SAT Rigging Aunt Becky And Her White Privilege

According to the Pew Research Center, there are fewer and fewer Latino students are going to college. In fact, despite how rapidly the Latino community is growing in the U.S., a widening education gap lands us at half as likely to hold a college degree as non-Latino white adults according to The Education Trust.

New York City school districts have the largest Black and Latino enrollment rates in the country but offer the fewest programs for gifted and talented children.

Recent surveys show that 10 school districts with 88 percent to 96 percent black and Hispanic enrollment have either one or zero K-5 Gifted and Talented programs.

In a recent interview with  Tai Abrams, a 2005 alumna of the Bronx HS of Science whose alumni list boasts eight Nobel and eight Pulitzer prize winners called the statistic “educational genocide.”

“It’s like killing off a group of people who are not getting the quality of education they deserve, and it’s a crime,” Abrams told the New York Post.

This is the kind of lack of educational nourishment that underlines the need for programs like affirmative actions.

People can whine and rant about it all they’d like but POC have a right to affirmative action. The latest arrest of Academy Award nominee Felicity Huffman and actress Lori Loughlin, best known for her role as Aunt Becky on “Full House” are proof of this fact.

In headline breaking news the two actresses were revealed to be part of a college cheating scam which gave their kids an unfair advantage that garnered them access to some of the country’s top universities, including Yale and Stanford. This is all despite the fact that the children of these two women, as well as those of over 30 other celebrities and CEOs, were already riding on an enormous wave of white privilege that gives so many white students a leg up in the college application process each year.

Never fear fellow Latinos and POC. While most of our parents might not currently be able to fork over a load of cash to pay and have someone else beef up our SAT exam scores, there are ways to beat the system. And that’s purely on smarts and know-how. Just how abuela would want you to do.

If you’ve already completed your college applications and you met all the deadlines, know that there are several things that you can do to improve your application post-submission. There are also cosas que puede hacer that are just for you because this is a time when you also need to practice some self-care and to remember that you are worthy.

1. Get back to taking care of yourself


Now that your applications are in and you’re not multi-tasking ad nauseam, you should take care of your mental health. Get back to sleeping seven to eight hours a night and cut back on junk food. Get back to making and eating actual meals when hungry rather than snacking on empty calories. Get back to your exercise routine, quit staying up too late, and research some mindful techniques to help you through the stressful waiting period.

2. Start researching scholarships


There are scholarships for everything and everyone. Scholarships for first-generation college students, Dreamers, musicians, people who wear glasses, and on, and on. This McDonald’s Scholarship is seeking to give money to Latino students. The due date is February 4! Looking for other kinds of scholarships? Check out this directory.

3. Double-check letters of recommendation


Most colleges are using online tools to collect your application and recommendation letters, and most colleges will not turn you away for a late letter. Go to all sites and confirm that all your letters of recommendation have been turned in. Contact any teachers who haven’t turn in letters by sending a cheerful e-mail letting them know that their letter is not showing in the portal, say something like, “Dear Ms. Lopez, I went to the UC Davis portal and did not see your letter of recommendation. Please let me know if there’s something else you need from me.”

 4. Check your FAFSA


If you haven’t filled out the FASFA, you need to do it now. If you have filled it out be sure to make sure all information is filled out correctly to minimize annoying delays. You CAN fill out the FAFSA and provide tax information even if your parents are undocumented. Simply enter 000-00-0000 for their Social Security number. Do no enter their TIN or tax identification numbers that they use to file their taxes!

5. Do more research on each college you hope to attend


In order to make the best decision when you start getting those acceptances that we know you’ll get, you should start researching each college, and the program in the college you intend to major. You should also research student body demographics. It might be very difficult to go to a school that has very few Latinx students.

6. Research your intended major


It’s important to have some kind of idea how much you’ll be able to make with a four-year degree if you plan to go to graduate school, and how much that might cost, and weigh that information with how much money, if any, you’re willing to borrow.

7. Be realistic about what you can afford


Sure there’s financial aid and scholarships, but student aid doesn’t always cover all costs. Do you really want to go into debt? We now know that loan companies have been targeting people of color and veterans, hyping the promise of education and taking advantage of people who have very little money to spare.

8. Have a real discussion with your parents about how much they can pay


I had a student who got into more than one four-year colleges straight out of high school. She was all set to study medicine when her parents told her that they couldn’t afford the tuition. Before she applied and got in, they hadn’t quite understood how expensive college would be, even with the aid that she got. She was, needless to say, devastated and she didn’t quite know what to do.

 9. If you’re concerned about funding, consider community college for the first two years.


That student that I was telling you about, well, she wound up staying with her parents and going to the local community college from which she’s about to graduate and transfer to a UC. As a result, she saved thousands and thousands of dollars doing her general education and preparing for her major at a two-year. While I’m on the subject of community college, you should know that students who go to community college have better persistent rates and get better grades than students who go straight to a four-year. Most California community colleges have Puente programs which provide extra support for Latinx students.

10. Don’t sabotage everything because you’re afraid


You’ve heard of those students who dropped out of high school during the last month or two of senior year or the student who didn’t turn in that last assignment and didn’t graduate? Human nature is a funny thing, and sometimes we’re afraid of success. Gente, we’re about to take over this place, echale ganas!

11. Spend some time reflecting on whether you’re sure you’re ready to leave home.


Many students drop out of school during the first year because they weren’t ready to leave home in the first place. It’s a lot to expect for every single young person in America to be ready to move to a new city and go to college on their own at just eighteen. As a nation, we need to get better at realizing that. Some students feel they have failed when this happened, but there are many different paths to getting an education. If you decide to stay home and attend a community college, remember that authors, Oscar Hijuelos, and Amy Tan went to community college, and so did musician Alice Bag, that one director of Star Wars, George Lucas, and Tom Hanks.

12. Keep in mind that you might not be ready today, but that you may well be in three months.


As you reflect on your readiness to move out of your house and into a dorm, remember that young people grow and change very fast. Maybe you feel mostly ready but your feeling reticent too. Keep in mind that feeling a bit afraid doesn’t mean you aren’t ready now, and how you feel today might change a lot in few months.

13. Try not to be mean to your parents


If you’re pretty sure that you’ll be going off to a four-year away from home, you’re at that age and maturity level where your parents are making you crazy. Being impatient with them or mean won’t make you feel better. Take it from me (mi híjo is on his way to college tambíen), your parents are probably profoundly sad that you’ll be leaving home. Spend some time trying to understand how they feel and compórtate bíen.

14. Start donating things you’ve outgrown


When you do move out of your parents house and into a dorm, you can’t take everything with you. Do your parents a favor and start getting rid of things piled up in your room and closet that you’ve outgrown or don’t need. Pass down things to your hermanx that they could use and donate the rest.

15. Help your hermanx be successful in school


Now that you have what it takes to be successful in school and apply for four-year colleges, help your sibs. Encourage them to stay focused, to manage their time wisely. Talk to them about the importance of learning and having a strong GPA. Give them study tips, tutor them in subjects they may need improvement.

16. Write thank you notes


Studies show that practicing gratitude is good for you. It’s also good for the teachers, mentors, family members, and friends who have helped you through the college application process. Take some time writing anyone who helped a genuine, heartfelt thank you note.

17. If you work, save money.


This one seems obvious, but it might be one of the hardest things to do, BUT if you’re not supporting yourself or anyone else like your parents probably are, you need to start saving money. Set aside a little money each month that you can take with you to college. You’ll need it! Here are some apps that could help you get started.

18. Read


I’ve noticed that one skill that students struggle with in my college English classes is reading — reading material that is at a college level and so much of it. You will be assigned an astounding amount of reading in college. The best way to prepare for that is to keep reading — read anything and look up any words you don’t know that seem important to understanding. Looking up words will increase your vocabulary, and I’ve taught many students frustrated by their vocabulary.

19. Plan your summer


If you have to work all summer, you should plan your summer carefully. Be sure to plan a trip or two with friends, especially those who are also going off to college or those you won’t see when you’re away. Plan out time you’ll spend with your familia. You’ll feel better leaving for school, if you spent quality time with everyone before hand.

20. Try not to stress out


Stressing out won’t help you. Try not to check your e-mail for acceptance info too obsessively. Go on a walk in the fresh air, cuddle your favorite pet, tell your mamá, or favorite tía, what’s on your mind, and remember that getting accepted, or not, to the college of your choice does not determine your self-worth.

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Preschool Students Are Doing Active Shooter Drills And I Guess This Is The New Normal Now


Preschool Students Are Doing Active Shooter Drills And I Guess This Is The New Normal Now

Active shooter drills at schools are the new normal for today’s youngest generation.

Yesterday, reports of teachers at an Indiana school being mock executed with pellet guns during a school-shooter drill sparked dismay when details of the event came out. During a drill, teachers were lined up and shot execution-style with airsoft rifles and told: “This is what happens if you just cower and do nothing.” The incident has sparked debate concerning the necessity of these drills that have become a grim routine in class schedules.

At Casa De Niños in Yuma, Arizona, teachers have had to consider the effects of mandatory active shooter drills on their preschoolers.

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A year after the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School shootings, which took place last February, schools have ramped up their efforts to train students on how to defend themselves against gunmen. Police officers, sometimes even teachers, play the role of a shooter banging on classroom windows and shooting at teachers or students while children are prompted to apply previous lessons on such events. They barricade doors, dodge fake bullets by running in zigzagged lines, and use “self-defense tools” like lunchboxes and backpacks.

The preschool, which includes children as young as one year old, requires its educators to take part in training once a month.

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Last year, CBS profiled the preschool’s active shooter drill practices shedding light onto the harrowing lessons our nation’s students are being faced with.

Footage from the report shows teachers as they defend themselves and students from a pseudo-active shooter.

The video shows two drills. The first sees the teachers as they barricade classrooms, and instruct other teachers (standing in the place of their students) to “get down” and hide from windows and doors. At one point a shooter walks through and shoots at students with a gun that charges off a realistic gunshot and smoke. The last drill shows the students. Preschool-aged children shove tables and chairs in front of doorways and draw curtains close. During this segment of training, they are taught that the gunman is called a “stranger” and that they are taking part in a game. The lights are turned off, and much like a game of hide-and-seek, they are told to stay quiet and keep out of sight.

While many of the kids appear amused by the presence of the camera at the mark of the filmed drill, some of their sly smiles quickly fade to alarm as the drill takes place.

In the CBS report, Jessica Alcantara, a teacher at Casa De Niños, attempted to make sense of the need for active shooter drills. “Back in the days when I grew (and) I was in school, that’s the safest place ever. It’s like am I really safe in school?”

According to the CBS report, since 1999 sixteen percent of school shootings took place at institutions where preschoolers and or kindergarteners were present.

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In 1999, soon after the Columbine massacre, the practice of active shooter drills began to crop up at schools around the country. The National Center for Education Statistics reports that during the 2015-2016 school year, more than 90 percent of public schools across the country took part in lockdown drills. According to the CBS report, two-thirds of public schools implement the drills.

The effectiveness of active-shooter drills can’t totally be measured, but studies have begun to reveal that they do have downsides.

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In fact, the month before the Marjory Stoneman Douglas shooting, the school had taken part in an active-shooter drill. Reports suggest that shooter was able to use the drills to his advantage when he carried out his attack.

Moreover, there’s the matter of time and resources. At Casa De Niños, the school spends one thousand dollars a month on training– that’s a budget that could otherwise be spent on upgrades to school facilities such as textbooks, science and art programs, and hot lunch programs for low-income students.

Downsides also include childhood trauma.

Decades ago, millions of schoolchildren in the 1950s were subject to civil defense drills like “duck and cover.” The drills required students to crouch under their desks in preparation for potential nuclear attacks. According to Timeline, teachers at the time reported an uptick in the depiction of mushroom clouds and death in their students artwork and research studies revealed that at the close of the 1950s, 60 percent of U.S. children reported having nightmares related to nuclear war.

The schoolchildren of today’s school shooter generation are subjected to similar fear-based realities.

In 2018, a Pew Research survey revealed that 57 percent of U.S. high school-aged students live in fear of a shooting taking place at their school. This information coincides with the National Institute of Mental Health study that reported 32 percent of 13-to-18-year-olds live with anxiety disorders with the median age of origin being age six.

Videos like the one of the students at Casa de Niños beg the question of what harm active shooter drills can cause younger generations. Yes, their intended efforts may keep children safe, but very well could be harming their childhood.

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